Something that struck me in Pinker’s “The Blank Slate” is
the statement “the idea is that if we’re blank slates, we must be equal.” This statement
somewhat confirms and contradicts what I know is right. I would think that when
we are newborns, we are blank slates and we are all equal. However, that is
ignoring nature (i.e. the environment we are born into, whether that be a
poorer family, a minority family, etc.) Babies are all born brand new with no
idea of what the world holds for them. This statement really struck me because of
all the inequality our world is facing right now, racial and gender inequality.
The idea that we are born equal, as beings that have no voice, but a body and
brain means we are blank and malleable. From my own life, I think my
experiences and how my parents influenced me is how I turned out to be. I come
from a middle class family and my parents were immigrants. I was born in the
United States, however my parents had different values than the typical
American culture. They raised me in a strict household where education was
everything to make sure I ended up nothing like them. Our situation isn’t even
that bad, yet my parents instilled success and wealth into my young mind to
potentially become a medical doctor someday. Although when I was younger, being
a doctor sounded fun, but as an adult finishing up my undergrad… I’m completely
unsure of what I want to do and I feel like a failure to my parents. It is
because of their influence that I take a completely normal feeling and turn it
into one of the main stressors in my life. That is why I think the influences
and experiences as a young child is important for how they develop
psychologically. This is how everyone has different values than I do. To
compare, I have a friend whose parents didn’t put such pressure on her and now
she is living her life traveling and working of her photography. Our situations
are different because of our different experiences and values instilled into us
as young children.
When most things are psychological, there is a lot at stake.
The way people think represents what they do and how they treat other people. The
way they think was influenced by someone else’s thoughts and experiences. This
can scar or inspire a young child’s malleable mind. An example would be Elliot’s
article on people who desire to be amputees. I don’t think someone is born with
the will to cut off a limb, but have an experience that led them to this desire.
The way people interact with one another is important to how one’s mind is
developed throughout their life.
I like how you describe the mind as being malleable. I agree our environments, past experiences, and those who raised us definitely shape who we are. I also agree that people and experiences can “inspire” or “scar” a child’s mind. Pinker talks about how parenting styles and ideas don’t have as much influence on children as most people think but I also disagree with this. With that said, Pinker also mentions how new parents are often overwhelmed because they don’t always know the best parenting styles. I can only imagine but I assume that I would feel the same way about wanting what’s best and being worried for my kids. I would say I am who I am today in large part because of how my parents raised me as well. I think parents can be hard on their kids sometimes but it’s so cool to see when parents wanting what’s best for their kids have such a powerful and beneficial impact on them.
ReplyDeleteI agree that the statement "the idea is that if we're blank slates, we must be equal" both confirms and contradicts what I know is right. In addition to what you discussed, this statement could confirm what I know is right if everyone was given the same environment and resources. On the other hand, it contradicts this equality idea because many people are born into different environments and they are given different resources which may determine where one stands in life. Just because humans have to learn everything they know, it does not mean they are or will be equal. In addition, physical attributes that are out of our control, may determine how we are treated and either open or limit our opportunities in life. For an example, in our society, privilege may be very different, simply by the color of one's skin. A physical attribute such as skin color may actually make one unequal to another at birth with a blank slate.
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